Yes, we did it!
I have written in a previous post that June is a period of transition not only for myself but for the whole family. So how did we survive? By trusting our instincts, by trusting the capability of kids, by believing in ourselves again, and most importantly by letting go and trusting in God's great providence.
Here's what happened:
- Naomi and Nathan went through their first day high's by themselves. Yep, no Mommy with them. I must confess I was so uneasy waiting for them to come home. I was imagining so many things and was so worried they wouldn't find their school service or might ride the wrong one. But God's protection is with them and legions of angels did guard my chikiting patrol. So there, they went home safely and with lots of stories.
- No stay-in helpers. I have two stay-out helpers who do the laundry and ironing of clothes. Both go to our house twice a week. Despite this, we badly needed a stay-in helper to cook food, do the dishes, watch over kids, and clean the house. Since we did not have any for about 2 weeks, we needed to do things by ourselves. Good thing the big kids cooperated. They looked after the little kids. They helped clean the house and washed the dishes. Everybody contributed and extended a helping hand to keep everything in order. So how did I manage cooking for the platoon? I did not! hahaha I cooked once then decided to utilize food delivery (with the strong support of hubby)! Isn't that cool (and expensive)? But hubby kept telling me the cost is nothing compared to the stress of cooking. So there, we survived. But shortly after this, we were lucky enough to have been helped by hubby's sister and soon found a stay-in househelp. But that short stint allowed everybody to do household chores again. A discipline that will help these kids when they're on their own. Also, this allowed me to revisit parts of the house that need attention. Most importantly, this experience reminded me that I am strong and that yes, I still have that extra energy to do chores to make a lovely home. Not bad at all.
- Nathan wrote his assignment all by himself. How awesome is that! Writing is a big chore for Nathan. So this is really a big milestone for him. I guess this time he does not have a choice but to write.
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| Nathan's first entry to his assignment notebook :) |
- Naomi does her assignment and washes herself without yaya's help. Yep, because in the first place we don't have a yaya. This has now become a routine for her so Mommy just checks and reviews her when Mommy gets home.
- Gab's timing of college is a blessing in disguise. Good thing Gabs will start college not until August 2015. So back in June when we did not have anyone in the house, there's Kuya Gabs watching over the kids when they get home from school. And if you're reading this Gabs, I want to thank you so much for taking care of your little siblings and for reviewing them. Not just a big help for me but most of all for Naomi and Nathan. You get to review them while there is still energy left for the day. When they are not cranky yet.
So there. That's it. And right now, even with our stay-in helpers back, we still do some chores. It's much more relaxed now. And we are not afraid.
I just love my family. And I thank you so much dear Lord, for helping me and the whole family get through this. More challenges to come. But you have shown so many times that you are with us.
P.S. I am so busy as of this writing because of tons of office deliverables. But I just have to write this now because my heart is just full of gratitude :)
